Drinking mummies. ..

Hello beautiful people I hope I find you well in this majestic year called 2020.HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! It’s looking up to be an amazing year so far, I am fired up and excited for the days to come. January has been so good to me and I can’t wait for February to arrive. If you know me well you know that February is our birth month my son included. I am excited to be turning 27 and my son will be 5 years old. We are three days apart so we usually just celebrate our birthdays together.

Today I wanna talk about Drinking mums, Mums that love to drink for various reasons. Be it alone to take the edge off at home or outgoing extroverts who go out for a couple of drinks during happy hour. Being a mum is definitely a full-time job that is very demanding. My son is 5 years old and he is a fireball of energy. I’m still to wrap my head around the idea of parents that have more than one kid. Because shuuu kids are a lot guys I mean they are so demanding, attention seeking loving little love terrorists. That being said I understand why a lot of mums have befriended the bottle as an escapism plan just to escape for 2 mins.

Taking care of little people is a lot and some mums that drink a glass or two wine or more everyday say it helps them be better parents. Some say they are more energetic and present when they have a little buzz. Especially for stay at home mums they find alcohol pretty entertaining because they say they are somewhat bored all alone at home waiting for that school run. In the midst of this everyday boredom they find themselves slowly but surely becoming alcoholics and also depending on the bottle too much. We as parents think that when we drink our kids don’t see it but I’ve noticed that no matter how little your kids are they see it. And most kids don’t know how to confront such situations without appearing nosy or downright too big for their shoes.

Working mums on the other hand feel that after a long day at work they need a drink to relax. Kids don’t really put much thought in considering that mum might have had a really long day at work. They will come full force with their stories, grievances and excitement. Its hard not to lend a listening ear when you are a parent. So, before all of that explodes or in the midst of that, mums take some coping mechanism found in alcohol. It can get from 0 to 100 real quick especially when we have a lot of kids at home.

I perfectly understand both situations but the downside of these situations can end up in self destruction. You might end up being an alcoholic without even knowing it because in your head you have a perfect excuse to drink every day. And besides you may say I’m not hurting anybody in the process so why not continue with my regimen. Have you ever thought that the person you could be hurting is actually you! You become codependent on alcohol to be a ‘good’ parent. Drinking is not bad; I actually drink but I do it responsibly and in moderation. I don’t drink every day too. Believe me I’m no saint I used to abuse alcohol and I am grateful that I found my grip and now we good.

As mothers we are always working under pressure and we are bomb multitaskers, kudos to us we are superhumans. But with all these amazing attributes we find ourselves working under pressure and failing short in some areas. It is in those moments when we feel we need to be superhumans that we look for some sought of drug to help us cope so that we don’t lose our cool. The load can get really heavy for us and its no walk in the park, that’s why we turn to alcohol, prescription drugs and actual drugs to cope. I for one growing up I always thought my mum was a superhuman and I role modeled her. Now I understand how hard she had to work for us and to also maintain that superhuman status. Its tough!

Let’s look at this whole story in another light. The whole drinking sport is done out of love so that we can put a sweet smile on our children’s faces. We think alcohol gives us super powers and makes us superhuman in some way. Its actually an illusion! We are the ones that have super powers within us. Once you become a mother you graduate and have abilities you never knew existed inside. Trust me its magic!

What am I trying to say in this blog post? I am saying to you beautiful mothers you really actually don’t need alcohol to expand your horizons. Your horizons are already beautiful and beyond. Alcohol is also beautiful but its not a need. You don’t need it to help you cope with your kids, you don’t need it to put a smile on your children’s face. Everything you think you can find in alcohol, its all in you mami. You are beautiful inside and outside and your children think you are amazing too. So, before you reach out for that drink, think twice and think about your health, your children especially. Because if you want to see your kids graduating and getting married, it can only happen if your alive, healthy and happy.

So, to all my beautiful mothers out there may we make 2020 the start of something beautiful. May this upcoming decade be the best decade ever! We are bold and definitely beautiful. Until we converse again ladies and gentlemen, I love love you!

P.S. I’m currently reading The Power of Your Subconscious Mind by Joseph Murphy. Its an amazing book so far, its literally mind blowing. Remember leaders are readers!

Drinking mummys…

Hello beautiful people I hope I find you well in this majestic year called 2020.HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! It’s looking up to be an amazing year so far, I am fired up and excited for the days to come. January has been so good to me and I can’t wait for February to arrive. If you know me well you know that February is our birth month my son included. I am excited to be turning 27 and my son will be 5 years old. We are three days apart so we usually just celebrate our birthdays together.

Today I wanna talk about Drinking mums, Mums that love to drink for various reasons. Be it alone to take the edge off at home or outgoing extroverts who go out for a couple of drinks during happy hour. Being a mum is definitely a full-time job that is very demanding. My son is 5 years old and he is a fireball of energy. I’m still to wrap my head around the idea of parents that have more than one kid. Because shuuu kids are a lot guys I mean they are so demanding, attention seeking loving little love terrorists. That being said I understand why a lot of mums have befriended the bottle as an escapism plan just to escape for 2 mins.

Taking care of little people is a lot and some mums that drink a glass or two wine or more everyday say it helps them be better parents. Some say they are more energetic and present when they have a little buzz. Especially for stay at home mums they find alcohol pretty entertaining because they say they are somewhat bored all alone at home waiting for that school run. In the midst of this everyday boredom they find themselves slowly but surely becoming alcoholics and also depending on the bottle too much. We as parents think that when we drink our kids don’t see it but I’ve noticed that no matter how little your kids are they see it. And most kids don’t know how to confront such situations without appearing nosy or downright too big for their shoes.

Working mums on the other hand feel that after a long day at work they need a drink to relax. Kids don’t really put much thought in considering that mum might have had a really long day at work. They will come full force with their stories, grievances and excitement. Its hard not to lend a listening ear when you are a parent. So, before all of that explodes or in the midst of that, mums take some coping mechanism found in alcohol. It can get from 0 to 100 real quick especially when we have a lot of kids at home.

I perfectly understand both situations but the downside of these situations can end up in self destruction. You might end up being an alcoholic without even knowing it because in your head you have a perfect excuse to drink every day. And besides you may say I’m not hurting anybody in the process so why not continue with my regimen. Have you ever thought that the person you could be hurting is actually you! You become codependent on alcohol to be a ‘good’ parent. Drinking is not bad; I actually drink but I do it responsibly and in moderation. I don’t drink every day too. Believe me I’m no saint I used to abuse alcohol and I am grateful that I found my grip and now we good.

As mothers we are always working under pressure and we are bomb multitaskers, kudos to us we are superhumans. But with all these amazing attributes we find ourselves working under pressure and failing short in some areas. It is in those moments when we feel we need to be superhumans that we look for some sought of drug to help us cope so that we don’t lose our cool. The load can get really heavy for us and its no walk in the park, that’s why we turn to alcohol, prescription drugs and actual drugs to cope. I for one growing up I always thought my mum was a superhuman and I role modeled her. Now I understand how

Ideal Christmas gifts for your loved ones…

Christmas is such a beautiful time to sit back relax enjoy and wine down with your loved ones. It’s the perfect season to eat and be merry despite whatever situation you are in. As for me I am a huge spoiler I love to spoil my loved ones with gifts during the festive season. You probably think that I have a lot of money right? Nah im just a minimalistic spender. Even if I have two dollars in my pocket I make sure that I spend it spoiling my son or someone I really love. I honestly find so much joy in giving, it’s such an amazing feeling. I am one person who would rather give than receive gifts because to me giving is more fulfilling than receiving. Which is why I used to lose at this game called love because I could overcompensate on a lot of things. Leaving me drained and outta love. I had to learn the hard way that it’s okay to receive affection, attention and love sometimes from your loved ones. Learning this bold lesson over the years helped me become a better spoiler than I was before. So here is a list of gifts that you can give your loved ones over Christmas. We are a day away from Christmas and I am beyond thrilled.

Christmas gift ideas for your children/young siblings:

¤Scooter

¤Train/Car/Truck toys

¤Teddy bear and/Barbie dolls (any kind of doll)

¤Toy Cooking set

¤Toy Doctor/Medicine set

¤Animated satchels

¤Animated colouring books

¤Clothes and shoes

¤Toy Makeup Set

¤Bicycle

These are just a few of the things you can get your children or young siblings on Christmas day depending on your budget. Please don’t hold back during this festive season, yes things are hard but come on don’t let this opportunity to make your children or siblings smile pass you by. It comes once a year so why not go overboard. Make your gift unique and tailor made for your children/siblings according to their different personalities. Trust me they will love the thought that comes with the present. All wrapped in unconditional love.

Christmas gift ideas for adolescents:

¤Video games e.g. Play station

¤Headphones preferably wireless

¤Portable speaker

¤Clothes and shoes

¤Designer shades

¤Gift cards

¤Makeup set

¤Braids (ombre)

¤Double Make over (mum and daughter or dad and son)

¤Photoshoot

¤New custom made duvet covers

¤Cell phone, cell phone accessories

¤Laptop

Adolescents are pretty challenging to know exactly what they really want without asking them. It is at this stage whereby they start being assertive and self-aware so they would rather be given money to purchase whatever they want. Nevertheless there is certainly no harm in trying. You can buy them that one thing if it’s affordable that they have always wanted and surprise them on Christmas.

Christmas gifts ideas for your mum/and dad:

¤Clothes and shoes

¤Tie and suit

¤Trip to favourite place

¤Gift cards

¤Christmas lunch/dinner

¤Home décor

¤Dining room suit

¤Kitchenware

¤Electrical appliances

¤A good pair of socks for dad

¤Designer sunglasses

¤Wig(s) for mum

¤Education assistance (a half scholarship)

¤Cell phone

¤Car

Gifts for parents are particularly expensive because I mean it’s our parents they raised us and we owe them everything. They put us through school they did a lot for us. So Christmas time is really the time to show them how much you love them and also a well-deserved token of appreciation. So spoil them and if you have the money buy them whatever they need and more. They totally deserve it and it is the least that you can do for them whilst they are still alive and kicking.

Gift ideas for your friends:

¤Shoes and clothes

¤Jewellery

¤Road trips

¤Gift cards

¤Kitchenware

¤Cosmetics

¤Spa treatment

¤Favourite alcoholic beverages

¤Handbags

¤Game tickets to favourite matches

¤House décor

¤Favourite books/novels

¤Put fuel/gas for them

¤Pay part of their electricity bill

¤Designer sunglasses

Friends are really important to us and they are there for us all year round and it’s such a great idea to spoil them this Christmas with whatever they need. I love my friends and I have a close knit of them so it is pretty easy for me to get them what they want in advance. My other close friend recently said she just wanted a key holder for her future apartment/car. And I was more than thrilled to get her that because yes it’s within my budget and I also get to spend more time

with her this Christmas. My advice would be for you to buy gifts that suit their personality types or just to save time why not just ask them what they want exactly.

Gift ideas for Bae:

¤Baecation

¤Proposal (yea put that ring on it)

¤Clothes and shoes

¤Gift cards

¤Designer handbags and sunglasses

¤Cell phone

¤Power bank

¤Education assistance

¤Road trip

¤Favourite alcoholic beverage

¤Toiletries

¤Lingerie

¤Underwear

¤Socks

¤Games

¤Game tickets to favourite matches

¤Concert tickets to favourite artists

¤Cell phone

¤Car

¤Groceries

This list goes on and on because it’s endless, you can buy your loved one whatever they want and it may not be on this list. You are the one who knows your person and you know exactly what they want for Christmas. Because yes (if) you are a great partner and you paid attention all year through when they were talking about their wish list. I was laughing to myself when I mentioned the power bank. Guys in Zimbabwe electricity goes every day and it has become a necessity to have a durable power bank. Considering that you always want to talk to your loved one I totally advice you to get him/her a power bank to avoid missing him/her lol.

So this is it guys these are my Christmas gift ideas for your loved ones. Get them and put a smile on their faces. Remember Christmas time is a time to give and please go out there and donate to your favourite charity organizations or even give a decent meal to children on the streets on Christmas Eve. It really doesn’t matter how small the gift is what really matters is the thought behind it and it’s all done out of love.

Until we converse again may we stay safe and remember not to drink and drive. Let us spread the Christmas cheer through giving and giving and more giving. I love you guys and thank you so much for taking time to read this blog. I hope you were inspired to give something to special to someone special. Stay safe!

Christmas Vibe!

 

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Christmas time is the best time ever! I really wish every single month of the year was like December.  I mean everything is cheaper, we spend time with friends and family more, we drink and eat a lot more kkkk. I think I’m already carrying some Christmas weight because the way I’ve been eating is beyond. I need to tone it down and the funny thing is that it’s not even Christmas day yet. We are exactly 9 days away and I am super excited. I’m feeling like a two year old locked up in a candy store. This has been my festive season vibe and I’m loving every bit of it. It’s fun, it’s goofy, it’s an exhilarating feeling.  I’ve been party and concert hoping of late. It feels like I’m sixteen again hahahaha. Cheers to the Christmas cheer.  What I’ve been noticing of late is that I’m in a very good mental space and it’s empowering.  I feel in total control of what I should be thinking about.  I have peace of mind not only because things are going my way but also I am so grateful to be alive and healthy.  It’s such a great feeling to feel loved and cared for by my family and friends.  I love Christmas guys! I really pray that my mental state remains unshaken in 2020 and beyond. Another thing I’ve noticed is that I’ve been spending so much time with my loved ones and this has a great impact on my health for some odd reason. Smiling more has been therapeutic on my end. Remember to smile.

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I want to challenge you this festive season to GIVE. Give anything that’s at your disposal whether it’s a hug or that sweater you never wore or even money. Give something to someone to make their festive season worthwhile.  Strive to put a smile on someone’s face. It’s actually easy through the act of practicing kindness. Give someone a genuine heartfelt compliment, you totally have nothing to lose. All those clothes you don’t wear anymore why don’t you donate them to an orphanage or an old people’s home. Or be random like me and do a mini grocery and give it to the disadvantaged children around your area and make them smile. Some people hate Christmas because they don’t get anything, so why don’t you change someone’s Christmas this time and give them a gift. I’m sure we all know one or two grumpy people who hate Christmas.

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Also take time to reflect on your blessings this year. Name them one by one and write them down and give thanks to God for them.  Even those really hard days be grateful for them because they taught you to value the blessed days.  Remember to spread love and be the change you want to see in the world. To all my workaholics please allow yourselves to rest for a bit. It’s allowed. You need to strike a balance in life it’s healthy that way. I’m so ready to reinvent myself in 2020 yall are not ready for this major revamp. All I can say is its going to be a jolly ride. I am so grateful for everyone who consistently read my blog this year and in the previous year. You guys mean a lot to me and you are one of the main reasons I write. Next year you are going to be wowed trust and believe.  Remember not to drink and drive, stay safe and remember that life is a gift! I love you guys may you have an amazing Christmas and a prosperous new year ♥♥

Mambokadzi Music Video Review

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Gemma Griffiths and Ammara Brown have done it again in their recent fiery collaboration for a phenomenal song called Mambokadzi. This song is beyond fire it’s an amazing song that celebrates the true essence of women. When I was watching the video last night I felt a chill down my spine and goosebumps all over. I was really really really impressed by their unique artistry. This song celebrates women being represented as Queens, Queens of their Kingdom a true Mambokadzi. I felt like a proud mother watching this video because of the way it captures not only the lyrics of the song but also the souls of the beautiful women featured.

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All in white representing purity and Queendom, they looked dazzling in all their glory. The video featured the likes of Tamy Moyo, MisRed, Chengeto Brown, Chiedza Chinhara. Just by mentioning these names you know these women are power houses, a force to reckon with, an unstoppable movement! Gemma has us on the edge of our seats chanting her beautiful lyrics this Christmas. What a groundbreaking way to end the year.

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The vivacious Ammara Brown exudes power with her marvellous presence and subtle but vibrant dancing. I am in awe of this video. This has to be by far a cherry on top to close off the year with a bang. If you know me you’d know that I’m all about women empowerment all the way. This song empowers women to take the lead, take control and take centre stage because yes we are QUEENS we reign supreme. The art in this video is pure genius it’s glamorous and very thought provoking.

Shout out to the hair stylists KinkyCurlyNaturals, the Makeup artist Audrey Paradza, the wardrobe stylists Haus of Stone. All of you are the real MVPS you made this video a success. Not forgetting THE producer my favourite Reverb7 and our charming Mixer SimbaTagz. You guys were phenomenal and hats off to you for supporting women in such a remarkable way. I am so grateful to be part of such a vibrant success driven generation of women, who will stop at nothing to get what they want in life. And what’s phenomenal about these women is that they are uplifting each other impacting a whole generation.

We know no colour we are not bound by race, backgrounds or ethnicity! All we know is that we are women who empower, impact and mould each other into the best version of ourselves. In closing this grand article in the showstopping words of Ammara Brown, “Women are a symbol of FREEDOM!”

Phenomenal women may we know them, be them and above all may we raise them. Here’s to a beautiful success filled 2020 ladies. Have an amazing festive season and remember to be safe. I love you all, see you in 2020 ♥♥

Here’s the link to the amazing video: https://youtu.be/IPTCkJDZPpk

Enjoy♥

If money wasn’t an issue, could I be working for free?

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Being the passionate writer that I am, I love what I do and that is writing for myself, for different publications, for various individuals and for myself again. I am a journalist by profession who majored in media studies at university. My passion for the media pushes me to work twice as much because I thoroughly enjoy it. If I didn’t have to work for money I would still be doing the exact same job with the same effort and passion if not more. I feel ignited when I’m writing be it articles, short stories, scripts for media production, blogging, presenting on my YouTube channel. It all comes effortlessly and easily, it is never a chore when I’m doing what I love.

If money was not an issue doing the same job I am passionate about I definitely can and willing to work for free. I have done it before and I am not afraid to do it again because it gives me an inexplicable level of fulfilment when I do so. Nowadays working for free in this rather challenging economic weather becomes a burden to make ends meet. This is why its encouraged to have more than one stream of income in order to still do what you are passionate for even if it means doing in for free. It becomes easier to work hard for what you are passionate for knowing that the basics are taken care of.

I am a strong believer in women empowerment and I strongly advocate for women to be emancipated in all areas of their lives for them to attain self-actualization and freedom. My writings are inclined to empowering women in the midst of conquering things like depression and anxiety. I am a mental health advocate who seeks to educate the public on what mental wellness really is, and I do this for free hence my blog. As a survivor of depression I am well aware of the ills that come with fighting it and especially for women it is more, due to our multitasking nature. We are ever doing two or more things at the same time and this tends to take a toll on our mental wellness. Which is why I seek to empower us women to know our mental health status through the help of my blog and my various social media platforms.

I see money as a token of appreciation of work done well and also as an act of gratitude. Being the writer/blogger that I am the universe humbles me every day by reminding me that being passionate about your purpose in life is a gift. I

have worked countless times in the media field working for peanuts or nothing at all. But this never dowsed my fire instead in reignited it every single time I got a chance to have my voice heard and have a seat at the table. A lot of people ask me how one can know their purpose in life. The answer is very simple. What’s the one thing that you do well and effortlessly with the least amount of time and it actually does not feel like a chore? When you are able to answer that question clearly then that’s how you will know what your true purpose is. For me it’s a no brainer it is that one thing that I can do over and over and over again and not get tired of doing it. I view money as a bridge that enables us to cross over to be able to get the desires of your life and lead a comfortable life. In light to your passion money should never be at the core of the reason why you are doing what you love. Instead it should just be viewed as a gift, as a token of appreciation, as a bonus.

This is a short note just to remind you if you are in the right field career wise and life in general. So often we doubt our abilities and think less of ourselves, we are our own enemy, our greatest critics. When are you going to start living the life of your dreams? It’s just a purpose away a passion away and if you pay particular attention at what actually lights up your soul that’s where your passion and purpose are. Don’t be afraid to dream, dream a lot and dream big! Until the dream scares you and the people around you think it’s too far-fetched and ridiculous that’s when you know that you are in the right direction. Never give up on your dreams just because people around you don’t believe in it and are not funding your dream. Keep doing what you are doing, keep grinding, the money will come later as a bonus. The universe always rewards a passionate heart that serves its people. Be of service serve serve volunteer do something for somebody actually do a lot especially for people who cannot do anything for you. It’s called LOVE!

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Thank you guys for taking time to read this blog post, it means the world to me and I love you so much thank you again for the unwavering support you give me relentlessly.  I am currently reading a phenomenal book called Chapter Zero: Creative Genius by my best friend, my mentor, my confidant Michael Mupotaringa (Mcportar). It’s a great read that will unlock the creativity of the reader and gets you on the prodigious path of self-discovery. I highly

recommend it, you can find it on Amazon and it’s for mahala it’s free. So there’s no excuse for you not to read it. Happy reading guys. Link is down below. Have a majestic week.

 

Chapter Zero: Creative Genius link

Women’s month special!

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I am beyond baffled, beyond excited that we are now in August which is women’s month that is celebrated across the world. I don’t even know where to start guys, all I can say is that we women are the best. We are just beyond phenomenal our creativity is jaw dropping. We are literally behind every good thing ever created on this planet. Okay let me turn to my feminist side for a bit lol. For a man to be a man he was given birth by a legendary woman and this is why I say women are behind every single creation. We are the it that makes everything beautiful, the very force of gravity. We are powerful we are strong and extraordinary. God’s gift to mankind! I will share my personal experience of being a phenomenal woman in a patriarchal society.

I was born in a family that was full of strong women still is, so I learnt or rather I was indoctrinated from an early age that I am a force to be reckoned with, I am powerful I am phenomenal. My mother is very vocal about women empowerment and she is a true testimony of what women can do if they believe in themselves entirely. She taught me to remember my Creator God and fear no man. That being said I grew up adamant knowing why it’s such a beautiful thing to be called a woman.

Of course there are obstacles experienced along the journey to womanhood but that hasn’t deterred me from finding and knowing my purpose in this world. It takes a special kind of a woman to know that your power is you and it’s inside of you. I am a mother and this role has made me view life in a different but impeccable light. It takes so much strength to understand what it actually means to be a mother and a woman at the same time. I have an amazing four year old son who is a fireball, the love of my life.

He has given me the blessing of experiencing two lives at once that of being a phenomenal woman and a wonderful mother to him. It’s an amazing immortal-like feeling and I am forever grateful for having such a privilege. I am a mother not just any ordinary mother but a wonderful mother. I’m sure in your head you are saying here goes little Miss. Perfect with no problems and no challenges. When I say that I am a wonderful mother I am not saying I have no problems no. Actually I think I have more problems than a lot of my readers here lol. But I choose happiness, I choose gratitude, I choose love. We are all a decision away from a different life, all of us. I choose to be wonderful because I like the sound of that word I like everything about it, its uniqueness and flare. I am imperfectly perfect I embrace all of my flaws because I know that is what makes me beautiful.

To all the women out there, you are beautiful because you are you, you are not beautiful because someone told you that you are. You are beautiful because you are a force to be reckoned with you are a freaken woman, a whole beautiful being. History is pregnant with phenomenal women in all its written pages. I do not even know where to start where to even begin. I already told you about my amazing mother, now we can talk about the rest of the population of wonderful women. I am a media person so I’ll begin there in my native country Zimbabwe.

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I am in utter awe of a phenomenal woman called Samantha ‘MisRed’ Musa, a radio personality, television presenter, an amazing MC, a business woman, a mother to mention just a few of her roles. She is a force to be reckoned with, I love this woman a lot. The way she carries herself with so much self-love, dignity, respect and she oozes confidence in her stride. She is a power house who has fought her way to the top. Her struggle was real but she made it still. Tell me a better definition of a strong woman and I’ll tell you that you are lying lol. I admire her strong personality that is versatile and unmatched. She has a resilient aura around her that is contagious, she wants to see women empowered and equipped to do better and be better.

History is still being written and she surely is leaving a beauty mark on the face of Zimbabwean media and beyond. Juggling such a lifestyle she still manages to go home to be an incredible mother to her kids. It takes a lot to be able to be present and active in all these roles. Actually it takes the power of God to intervene and help us as women to multitask and manoeuvre way past the enemy. I am in constant awe looking back at how women have broken barriers and changed the game itself.

We for a long time have been side-lined and told that we are not enough we can never be better than men. But still like dust we rise even in the deepest of pits we find our way to success. Remember this women, success is not a straight road especially for us women it is crooked, it’s up and down its meandering. We may face so many obstacles due to our physical attributes but we are no less powerful than those of the opposite sex. And if I should say so myself we are hella great!

We are born to soar and live beyond our limits and wildest dreams. But it takes a lot of belief in ones’ self with the knowledge that life doesn’t just happen to us but we make it happen. We are in charge, girls totally run the world. We as women are able to reach greater heights if we empower each other rather than troll each other. Realising our strength and working harder to be better individuals who are empowered, encouraged and ready to conquer is a recipe for success. To my aunts and my female friends you guys rock my world. You have managed to teach stubborn me to be better in most areas of my dear life I am a better mother because of you guys, I am a better sister because of you, I am a better daughter because of you and most importantly I am a better individual because of your unwavering love.

With this being said may we be phenomenal women, may we be them, may we know them, may we empower them and may we praise them. Be sure to enjoy women’s month with a glass full of wine to the bream (preferably red lol) and with your loved ones.

Do not I repeat do not be afraid to let your light shine just because you are afraid of making others uncomfortable and insecure. Honey if they feel that way then that’s their own baby to nurse, you are not responsible for making them feel that way. You are a phenomenal woman you are responsible for you only not anyone else, yes we have roles to play but when someone feels crappy all the damn time eh that’s not your problem. I wish you a love filled month, may this month elevate you and make you better in all areas possible phenomenal women. And to the men that are reading this post do not be afraid of the phenomenal women around you instead embrace them, empower them and above all love them unconditionally. Till we converse again beautiful people let love lead this month and beyond I love you guys and thank you for your unwavering support…

I’m thinking of starting an official Book Club y’all. What do you think? Hit me up in the comment section below. I will call it Wine and Books. My love for wine and books is equivalent lol. This month I am rereading one of my favourite books called ‘Why men love Bitches’ by Sherry Argov. It is a women’s guide to holding her own in a relationship. It’s such an eye opening read, be sure to check it out!